Date A Girl Who Dances

Date a dancer, not just for the thrill involved in watching her dance. Date her for the grace, for the myriad of expressions, for the flexibilty, for the balance, for the confidence, for the liveliness and for so much more. Date her for the colourful variety she would bring in your life, one time she would be the belly dancer and the other time she would have a performance for female infoeticide. She would be flexible in adjusting to your likes, just the way she blends her body postures in rhythm to the music beats. The same way she could transform her expressions and dancing style according to the music. Date her, because she would know that it takes time and effort to make something beautiful, to make it perfect. She would always be open to ideas as she knows there is always more than one way of going about things, just the way there can be so many different steps that could be perfect for a particular beat. Date her, because she would know that it is not just the song that would make a performance a hit. She would put in her best to make it a success. You would know she is a dancer if she is on the dance floor right from the time the music starts till the time she is the only one on the floor, insisting the DJ to play just one more song. You could recognise her in the crowd, if even a crowded bus, she is in a blissful state, with earphones plugged. If you look closely, you would find her struggling from swaying in the music and forcing herself to keep a straight face, fighting the expressions that she pictures go perfect for the song. You might still catch her tapping her feet and slightly shaking in a rhythmic manner. You would know she is a dancer, because even while standing in a crowded bus, she would hold the seat in a way different from others, with poise and she would seem comfortable even with one one hand twisted behind holding the seat, while her legs are literally on top of one another because of lack of space. She would never feel conscious or uncomfortable if you fix your eyes on her, in fact she might not even register it. If at all she does, she would not shy away from making an eye contact because she is used to looking in the eyes of the audience and smiling graciously. When you meet her, she would talk with you animatedly, her eyes moving in all corners and her hand gestures speaking more than she would. But try not to strike a conversation on dance moves. Technicality is a buzz killer, one needs to enjoy and live the dance than focus on where the hands and legs go. Rather share your music with her or better, show her a silly dance move. She would love to act goofy and dance silly for fun. If you dance too, challenge her with your moves and see her match your steps. Take her for a long drive and play groovy music and see her eyes gleam instantly. If the music cant be played out loud, leave her to herself, her ipod would come out and she would lose herself in her music. Do not distrurb, she loves being in this world, she would be grateful to you for this. Date a girl who dances, because she gives importance to small things too. She knows the importance of timing for a rhythmic flow and would never go off-beat. She knows the importance of finishing her moves before starting a new one and would never keep you hanging. She would be well balanced and even if she loses her temper, she knows the right way to fix it and it just a good song away. She would fix things, while smiling without panicking just the way she would when she forgets a dance-step in between a performance but has to go on. Even if she messes up badly, she would let it go. If she likes you back, she probably finds you interesting, challenging and lively, something she could work on to bring out something beautiful. If you find the girl who dances, indulge in the beautiful harmony she brings and make sure to symphony never ends.